Has the presence of word verification ever stopped you from commenting on another’s blog?
How about the good ol’ noreply when you email another?
As a weekend host of a fairly large linkup event, I visit a lot of blogs. It’s been really fun getting to know more and more of you!
However, some visits require jumping through hoops to get my comment of gratitude to you. Or even an email. And most of you aren’t even aware of it.
Let’s look at it this way. Have you ever answered your door to a guest, only to immediately hand them a dish cloth, requesting they do your dishes before you can visit? Silly scenario, isn’t it? Well, some blog default settings sort of do the same thing to your blog visitors. The settings make your guests work in order to leave a comment.
The problem?
Default settings
When you start a new blog, there are default settings in place. With a few minor tweaks, your blog can immediately become more visitor friendly!
Having our visitors feel welcome is critical for blog success. And making it easy to leave comments and emails back to all is even more imperative if you wish for those comments. Trust me, I use to use all these safety gadgets in my earlier days of blogging. But today, I’ve found better ways around the issues. So, allow me to help your blog become more visitor friendly this very instant!
What it does:
When a visitor makes a comment, a funky or sometimes scrambled word comes up, where they must type it out in order to have the comment go through. This keeps spammers from leaving comments on your blog.
Lecture
This is not only a spam deterrent, it can also be a comment deterrent.
At times, it’s a 3 step process to leave a comment. First you comment, then do word verification, then sometimes a third to verify. (I don’t know why this is!) I miss the 3rd step nearly every time, as I have to manually scroll to read whether the comment took or not. And if I don’t verify, my comment will not be there. Which happens to LOTS of my comments. And I don’t go back to enter again.
So what about the spam issue then? Some of us will get hit, and then you have a reason to put it back on. However there ARE other ways to deal with the spam. I use email notification to keep track of where it goes. And with the new blogger templates, there’s now an auto spam filter that catches most of it.
So, I vote remove word verification TODAY and let’s ease the pain of 2 or 3 clicks it takes to leave a comment on your blog.
99% of you don’t know you have it activated. Guaranteed.
Check it out.
How to deactivate (or activate) word verification
dashboard
settings
comments
scroll down to: Show word verification for comments?
please select NO.
click save settings
Comment notification
What it does:
Every time someone comments on your blog, you’ll get an email which makes it soooo easy to reply back to your visitors! (IF they have comment notification enabled as well)
Lecture
You know how much work it is to hunt for someone’s blog in order to find their email to comment back. This makes it a breeze! Just do it and thank me later. This is also how I gauge spam.
How to activate comment notification
dashboard
settings
comments
scroll down to: Comment Notification Email
fill in your email
click save settings
Comment moderation
What it does:
When someone comments, you have a chance to moderate the comment before allowing it to be published on your blog. The comment will not appear until it is approved by the blog owner.
Lecture
I honestly LIKE seeing my comment publish right away on your blog. I like to check for spelling errors and if I sounded like a dork or not and may wish to redo it.
Ask yourself why you’re still moderating comments. 99.9% of them are super nice! And now you have comment notification on so you’d get an email on where to locate it in order to delete it if desired anyway. Same with spam. So go ahead. Live dangerously. Deactivate this one. It’ll save you work and offer your guests instant gratification.
How to activate/deactivate comment moderation
dashboard
settings
comments
scroll down to: Comment moderation
select NEVER … I mean, if you want
click save settings
Activate your profile / email
What it does
If your profile is activated, this provides a means in which we can #1 email you IF you activate email, and #2 – you’ll show up in other’s email notifications. Which is truly what you want. Trust me.
Lecture
Let’s say you leave me a comment and I want to write you back. If I need to go hunt down your blog (which one, anyway? many of you have more than one), then leave a comment on some non applicable post in order to reach you, chances are I won’t do it.
How do I KNOW you don’t have your email or profile activated? Because when I go try and email you, your email address shows up as noreply. Which really means NO REPLY. Which means I can send it but it won’t get to you.
Leery on having a profile for security reasons? Leave your profile blank but at least activate a new hotmail email account you can later delete if going public isn’t working for you. However, if you’re public with a blog, you really ought to go public with an email. It’s good PR for your visitors.
How to activate your profile and email
#1. CREATE a profile if you don’t have one already. This is somewhere in your initial blog settings.
#2. Once created, you need to activate it.
dashboard
look to the upper left
select edit profile
under privacy -
select – show my profile
select – show my email address
under identity -
ADD – your desired online email address
click save profile
Embedding comments under post
What it does
If embedding is chosen, your comments will show up underneath your blog post in one long scrolling page after you click your home page. No popup boxes or separate pages applicable.
Lecture
Ever wish to comment but wish you could scroll up to take a gander at the post while you do so? My comments are MUCH shorter if I must rely on the memory of what your post just showed me.
But this option does more. When someone clicks on your post, they don’t have to select COMMENT in order to make one. The comment window is just there and open and ready for you.
I also don’t care for the little popup box that jumps up at me when commenting. #1, they’re too small and I feel like I’m typing inside a postage stamp and I must manually grab and enlarge it if I want it bigger, and #2, if I click on your post to scroll, the comment box disappears. Just not as user friendly as embedding.
How to activate embedding comments under post
dashboard
settings
comments
scroll down to: Comment Form Placement
select Embedded below post
click save settings
then sign out of your blog, and go and try and comment to make sure it works.
Contact Me Button
What it does
A properly functioning contact button on your blogface allows visitors to email you through one click. The feature automatically opens up their email account so it cuts down on additional steps.
Lecture
I personally don’t love them because it opens up a weird more simplified email box area on my mac. However it’s alot easier than cutting and pasting someone’s email into your own email which requires extra steps. This is quick and easy.
Tip: if you right click a contact me button done right, it’ll give you the option to simply COPY the email address if you so desire which is very handy!
How to create a Contact Me button
1. Choose your blog button (picture) of choice.
(creating blog buttons needs to be in a post by itself… one day I shall)
2. Upload your image to any image hosting website.
(I use Photobucket)
Once uploaded, html codes of all kinds will be attributed to your image. Keep all those fancy codes handy. You’ll need the image one. (starting with http and ending with jpg, png or whatever)
3. Go back to blogger, and go to
dashboard,
design,
page elements,
add a gadget,
scroll down to the 6th that reads HTML
4. Enter this code as is except for tweaking in your own applicable info:
red – your email
teal – your image code
magenta - center coding
You won’t be able to cut and paste the above code as it’s only a picture. There’s alot of work and learning in making codes show up in blog posts correctly, so for now click HERE where you can cut and paste the code from. It works! Just remember to replace the applicable info with YOUR email and YOUR image info.
Want the button to center? Add the center info before and behind the code (as above) like I did which wasn’t included in that website.
5. Save changes, position where you desire and you’re done! Test it out to ensure it’s working.
Music
What it does
Some blogs have added a playlist of music. When you enter a blog, you’re either greeted to music automatically (which you can deactivate by FINDING it first) or you have the option to activate the play yourself.
Lecture
What it REALLY does is scare the daylights outta me when I late night blog hop.
Other than that, this feature slows down dial up computers, causes my high speed connection to slow down and run glitchy, and encourages me to exit quicker than I may have originally wished to. Where it’s true you can mute, I don’t want to each time music hits me at random. I vote to at the very least, disable it and leave it as an option for visitors, not a mandatory feature. Or leave it off altogether.
Commenting back
What it does
When someone comments on your blog, many of us love to comment back as a blog courtesy.
Lecture
I get emailed a fair bit asking what I personally do. And then I email others and ask what they do. ‘Round and round we go!
In a nutshell, you need to do what’s right for you.
Are you wishing you had the time to comment back to each comment you get? Me too. There was a day when I did just that. And at times I still do. But if some post receives 80 comments, and my son needs to be fed, you can guess which comes first.
This is my feeling. If I give someone a kudos, while it’s nice to get an answer back, I don’t expect it unless I asked a question. We all have busy lives. If you feel you can comment back, by all means, do so! But to put that pressure on yourself that you MUST to each and every one is in my belief, somewhat self inflicted. It’s easy to do in the early days of blogging but gets increasingly difficult as your blog grows.
I suggest:
- respond back if you can. I believe interaction creates bonds that are not soon forgotten. If you can’t, at least address ALL the questions.
- Answer questions within your comments (for the benefit of all) AND emailing them back as well. Remember, not all (if any) will actually return to your post a 2nd time to read possible comments from you. I do it for the benefit of new commenters.
- Fire up a Facebook account and ask/answer questions there. It’s a breeze (and very fun!) to communicate with all! Join us! FJI Facebook is a chatty and fun group!

- It pays to check it out and play around on Twitter and see what you think. It’s so universal. I found out about the photo contest I entered there ( and won) and bloggers from far and wide got to the Nate studio, thanks to Twitter. You just never know!
ID yourself with your blog url
in emails and comments
What it does:
A blog url is your blog’s home page address. If you click on your header, this is your blog’s url. Mine reads as http://funkyjunkinteriors.blogspot.com/
Lecture on emails
I get emailed alot to check out someone’s blog. Or a specific post. I just weeded through 70ish emails today so can you imagine how much is on the go when this transpires?
Please look into your email settings and at the very least, add an active blog link as an automatic signature so you don’t have to do it every time you email someone. This helps to identify you as well as making you easily found! I don’t consider it spam. I consider it good blog biz. Maybe I WANT to check you out, ya know?
Want me to spec out a specific post? Please include the url for THAT post too. I’d rather help 5 of you than just one of you in the same amount of time. Thanks!
Lecture on blog posts
Got more than one blog? You may even wish to leave your direct URL under your name in your comment. I do that at times so one doesn’t have to search all my blogs to find the ‘real one.’ I think I only have 5 or something ridiculous like that.
If you comment on a blog, many times they follow your comment back to you. Make it easy for them!
Homework
I totally suggest to sign out of your blogger account, then go make an attempt to comment on your blog. See for yourself all the hoops that must be taken in order to do so. Then go ahead and tweak to your heart’s content. You now know how.
And by all means, please share this blog link to whomever you feel could use a little blog savvy help. I thank you in advance!
What do you think?
Did I mention any pet peeves of yours?
Have any suggestions on doing something better than above?
Feel free to share!
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oh my….I just typed out a heart felt dissertation and BLOGGER just killed it.
hate that.
I’ll be back.
~K
Thank you for pointing out the hazards of music on blogs! Inevitably, I have the speakers cranked up for something else I was trying to hear and get blasted. Even for those blogs with music which IS to my taste, it’s annoying. On blogs in which the music isn’t to my taste, I usually won’t come back. (“What I could I possibly have in common with a fan of that horrible singer???”) Great tips!
I think I’ve already done most of these, but I did make one change from reading this–embed the comment form beneath the post. I still don’t have a contact button yet, thanks for reminding me, I’ll have to work on that one!
Thanks so much, this is awesome!
Donna, I think you are the cat’s meow. But I do kind of wonder why it is a problem to just type out some verification letters. For me, I am going to keep them on my blog. My blog was attacked twice and it got really bad. Some people even figured out where I lived and were leaving me threatening comments. If I hadn’t had verifications and approvals I would have had thousands of angry, threatening comments publish before I knew what had happened.
I guess I’d rather have less comments than go through that again.
But I am 1000% with you on the music thing. It is so jarring to be unexpectedly hit with music when you open a blog.
Thanks for a very thoughtful post. You are one of my favorites! Lisa~
Well said, Donna. I’ll bet a lot of us will be referring to this post for a long time. I’m off to check all my settings. I know I need to work on a contact me button.
Thank you for taking the time to explain everything so clearly. You may just have turned a lot of people away from the dark side with this one!
This needs to be pounded in some people’s heads. This was very well written and needed to be said. I’ve gone over my blog a few times and have checked these things so that I’m not a hypocrite. I hope mine is easy to comment on.
What a great post. I learned a lot.
Great tips as per usual Donna ~ love these ~ love you
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Thank you so much for this! I am working on creating a blog with awesome image and content and your advice is very helpful. Check me out sometime in the future…we are still working out the kinks!
Thanks again.
Great subject! I have a website not a blog and websites are not comment friendly.
That’s why I added the Neighborhood to my website. It is a social networking site that allows blogs and website owners to promote their sites through discussion, images and videos.
I will leave more messages on blogs that link back to my site. I do, but very seldom sign in with my Google account.
Thank you! As a complete blog noob, I found this post very helpful. Plus, it got me into the dashboard settings and messing with stuff. I may not have a post up yet but my settings are pretty good.
Ok, I’ll try this again.
This is Part I
First and foremost you have taken the time to prepare all of this information for us. We need to be taking up a collection for you. You should be paid for this. Preparing a post like this is no easy or light task.
Donna, thank you.
A lot of your suggestions/ideas/tweaking Polly did for me when I gave her the go ahead to go into my blog. She was designing a button for me at the time. I should be paying her too!
Question:
How does one make the buttons into a two column slide instead of one slide that trails to China on our front page?
Also, any suggestions for blog design or re-design? I have gone to Shabby Blogs and Cutest Blog on the Block. Great places. Are there others that we should know about? I’m afraid to use the new blogger formats for fear that everything will be scrambled or erased. That happened to me already. It’s devastating to have to begin again. Most likely I did not know what I was doing and hit the wrong button. Now I’m too nervous to try again. I would like to re-do the design of my blog. I’m bored with it now.
part II….
Part II
Ok, I’m book marking this post to make sure all of my tweaking is up to snuff. I totally trust your eyes and voice here. I started reading your recent post….oh man….opened a can of worms for me, darlin’, with that topic. I’ll be over there in just a minute.
So part of what I was trying to write yesterday when blogger decided to hit eject on my comment was this:
Can you believe I just forgot? I forgot. Rats. I’ll have to come back.
~K
Thanks for saying all this. Especially about making it harder for readers to comment. I don’t have a google account or “url” so sometimes I cannot comment. ALSO, I dislike the music that blasts on. I would never say that to a blogger because I don’t want to be ugly! Sometimes the playlist is at the very bottom, so I just move on to the next blog. You are one of my very favorites, thanks for your thoughtful words. I enjoy your creative junk vignettes a lot. Thanks.
Thank you so much for the time and effort that you have put into this article (and comment thread) Donna. You’re the best
Great for oldies too – good to keep up with how etiquette is evolving. Have tweaked my settings. Keeping fingers crossed for more comments. x
Donna,I cannot say thank you enough for this post. I am new to blogging and replying to comments has been quite tedious, I loose track of who I have replied to and sometimes can’t reply at all.I enabled the comment notification this morning and it is great! So easy and quick! Thanks a lot!!!!
Thank you sooo much for the info! The word verification things drives me nuts! I didn’t realize my blog had it on, too! I’ve already nixed it! Yea!!!! I’m your newest fan!
Great info! And well said….thanks!
Ah, this is so appreciated. Well written, funny, and informative! Thank you heaps!
Yay! Maybe now I’ll get more than just 2 comments per entry! Thanks so much!
dont have time to read all the comments, so i may be repeating, but !! you hit the nail on the head all the way around !! especially the MUSIC..what’s up with that??? ihate it…i spend so much time looking for it so i can turn it off ! dont these people read other peoples blogs?? dont they know how irritating it is??? and many many times i tried to leave comments only to be so frustrated that i just quit !
thanks…hope some people actually get this !!
Agree with almost everything. Tried the comments embedded under the post but hate how it takes you to the top of the post and you have to scroll down. If there are a few comments you have to scroll through those to. The pop-up window is much simpler and you can still view the post by sliding the window to the side. I like the window vs. the full page pop up.
As far as the music, have had it on and off and have mixed feelings about it. I usually go back to it because my blog is not only for its readers but for myself. It brings me joy to listen to the music on there and it makes the page seem more real vs. a cold business webpage. I try to at least choose instrumentals to make the reading easier. But I hear ya. Maybe I’ll take a vote on my page.
Thanks again.
Thanks for the tips. I am off to make some chamges now.
Jenny at http://www.thepetersporch.blogspot.com
Thank you so much for all the instructions! I’m new to blogging and was confused by some of the set-up. But, I just followed along with this post and corrected everything. I even created a “contact me” button!! Thanks again!
Kudos to you! I agree with all of these and am ecstatic that you provided such detail. I’ve been meaning to do a post like this, so will link to yours! XOX
Thanks again for this, Donna! I’ve been wanting to add an email button to my blog for quite some time…and I’m working on it right now! Woohoo!!!
Have a gorgeous weekend!
: )
Julie M.
This is awesome. I am linking to this at somedaycrafts.blogspot.com. I totally agree with you about a ton of things – especially word verification!
I just totally took like 6 of your suggestions:) thanks:)
monkeyseemonkeydo-jennifer.blogspot.com
Done! Thanks for the tips.
Great post! I’m going to post about this on my blog and send some people here! This is all great info and I recommend all of it as well!
Carmen and the Primcats
Thank you for addressing music on blogs. I’m usually listening to music as I browse so I find it very jarring when two different songs are playing at once.
Thank you for sharing!
Super fantastic tips!!! A couple of them I had to go back and double-check that I had already done…I did…but I wanted to be sure! Thanks again for sharing!
Have a Happy New Year!!!
great tips, thanks so much!
so helpful!!!!! thanks so much x
Wow! You taught me SO much, even things I thought for sure I wasn’t doing “wrong”! I went to my blog a dozen times and made changes as I read through your post!
This is wonderful! Thank you SO much for taking the time to help us out!
May I add: give the option of Name/URL in the Comment As box! I have my own URL so the OpenID doesn’t work for me, and I’d rather link to my blog than my Google account.
Oh this was so helpful! I go back and forth between embedded comments and pop-up- I always wondered if there was a preference out there!
And I’m with the majority- I really dislike the music! I’m always surprised when it starts and quickly try to find the volume key- ugh!
And I would LOVE to respond to questions directly in email, but MOST of mine are “noreply” which is frustrating. I just have to hope they come back and look at the comments.
Have you ever thought about a comment program that requires commenters to leave an email? Wonder which one works with blogger?
Thanks!
Jami
http://www.AnOregonCottage.com
Thank-you, Thank-you! This post has been very helpful!
Awesome post! Thanks for sharing all these tips – I am relieved that I already done most of your recommendations, but I’m going to try to comment on my own blog right now and see the real deal. Have a wonderful weekend! Lisa
Good to know that I already did most of this. However, I did change my pop up comment to the embedded one. Just recently when I clicked on a blog to comment and that pop up window “popped up” it kind of freaked me out a bit lmao and I though ugh, mine’s like that, how do I change that right away….Really glad you showed us how
Thanks
This is an excellent post. I have only been blogging for a few months and really need all the help I can get. So informative and such simple things that can make a real difference.
Thanks,
http://jandjhome.blogspot.com/
Thanks for the tips! I had most of these figured out, but I did a little brushing up. P.S. I found this post through 320 Sycamore.
Excellent information! I’m still in the process of setting up my blog for user-friendliness, so every tip like this counts double for me.
stellar post! I really love that you included how to make the changes if readers don’t know how- that’s incredibly helpful!
Thank you so much for the suggestions. I am new to blogging and this has been a world of help!
Just want to send you a little blog love for such a great post. I check out my settings to make sure I was all squared away and sent the link to several of my friends who have started blogging in the last few week. Great post. I have read it and am rereading it. Thank you!
Oh this was GREAT GREAT GREAT DONNA!!! The word verification!! I don’t think I”ve found more than half a dozen blogs that I have NO PROBLEM leaving a comment on..nearly ALL of them I hit ‘publish comment’..then it comes back with the word verification (if I’m lucky!)then I enter THAT and it comes back for another go andI hit Publish comment…and i often get..your comment will be published when approved or whatever…and yes, each step you hve to scroll down to see if it’s accepted!!! It is terribly offputting…but so far I’ve persevered!! BUT NEVER THOUGHT OF TAKING IT OFF MY OWN BLOG! AAGHHH! Have now! Thanks for giving the step by step! Will post this link on my bloggie soon.
And the MUSIC!! YES!YES!YES! Talk about scare the pants off me! Especially if someone else has been on the computer playing something or other and left the volume ‘ever so slightly louder than mum likes’!! Eeyikes!! anyway…
ciao bella..you’re awesome! (Man! had to spell awesome three times just then..I REALLY need to go to bed!! hahaha!!)
niteski
jessie, nz xx
EGADS but this was WONDERFUL!! Thanks so much for sharing and, hopefully, making it easier for my blog followers!
This is awesome! Thankyou so much for taking the time to share all of this with us!
Yeah the music and word verification is annoying. Thanks for the tips
Great post! I found you from Daph over at Flip Flops and Pearls and am glad I visited. You’ve made some really amazingly accurate points and now I’m off to make some changes to my blog! Thanks for sharing.
Run on.
I don’t know how I got here, but I’m glad I did! I had the comment word verification enabled and had no idea I was making my friends jump through hoops. Thank you for alerting me to that and clearly explaining how to fix it.
I do most of what you said, but changed my comment to embedded to see if I like that better. I wish more folks would do away with word verification. It is such a pain!
This was so helpful, thank you!
I think you were an awesome read! I’m here from Debbie’s blog.
That was very helpful. Thank you so much.
http://mmbcreations.blogspot.com/
GREAT! post!!! Thanks so much! P.S. I absolutely love your site…now I have to go answer those comment emails because, well, I thought I didn’t have to reply back. But I totally see where you are coming from! Thanks again! I’ll be passing this on!
I really, really, really, really, appreciated your pearls of wisdom regarding how to use blogspot.com better. Thank you!
Joyce M
More good tips! I deactivated word verification and activated email in my profile today…another day towards improving my blog thanks to your help.
Thanks so much for this!!!! I am a brand new blogger, just started last week!!! I had done some of those things, but finished off the list of suggestions you listed. I hope you will stop by and check me out one day! Thanks again, an up and coming blogger!
WOOT!… I feel like I got an ~A~ on a test… I had them all right
I will be passing on the link to this artlice since people aske ma all the time and you did such a stinkn’ good job of laying it all out there
Maddie- The D.A.
Am I crazy? I have my comments set to be embedded, but it’s not working. You have to click on the word “Comment” and then it refreshes the page to have the comments embedded. Why aren’t they just there automatically so that everyone can see them without having to click?
Oh, and in reference to comment #166 that I just made, also when I click the Facebook link at the bottom of a post, it posts the comment that was just made, not the post that I made. Why, oh why? Help??
Thanks so much. for those of us (meaning me) who are absolute nitwits this has been so helpful.
You’re info is always awesome and so spot on. I know this isn’t a new post, but it’s new to me and it’s super helpful. Thanks
Thank you so much for this post! I have already made a few changes to my baby blog because of what I read, and I will definitely be back to learn more when I have a bit more time. Your blog looks great!
Best post ever!! There are so many other articles that say the opposite of what you wrote (to deter spammers) but then again, people who want to comment are turned off by the immense amount of security settings and other bruhaha going on just to comment. Thanks for sharing. I’ve bookmarked it already!
Just starting blogging and found your site through another blogger… Great information and I will back to figure out more things and possible will have alot questions… Thanks for the info so far. http://marlys-thisandthat.blogspot.com/
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This was so helpful – I just was able to add an “Email Me” button to my blog.
Thanks!!
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